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Two days ago, the DJ mentioned a case happened in US.

-A man divorced a woman through FB-

Without discussion, without negotiation, without understanding, without argument,

without conversation, without debating, without dialogue,

the man change the his FB status to "Divorced".

The woman was shocked when she found out her husband's status is "Divorced".

Have you ever experienced the similar situation?

Break up through sms? Break up through phone? Break up through a chat in FB?

Is this a good communication way to terminate a relationship?

Some say NO, and some might say YES.

It's hurting when the solution is chosen to be done in this way. The person that initiates will never know how much additional sorrow/sadness to the other party. They have no choice but to accept thing in this way.

Recovery will be more suffering and longer. Despair. Grief. Emotions. Heartbroken.

If you can choose, if I can choose, things will never reach this stage.

Wish you Happiness and Happy.

Little thinking after some days by myself.

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Cars move slower..

Drivers more gentle..

After a 10days trip to BolehLand, I realized that I've back to a country where all your dreams can come true.

Yesterday 14hrs, Today 5hrs. Fair enough.

I am referring to my working hours.

There are really a lot of things out of our control.

Is it "FEELing" that we can self control the most?

When you want to be happy, you know the way to make yourself happy.

When you want to be alone, you can hide in a box where no one can find you.

When you want to be accompanied, you can call the first person that pop out in your mind.

When you want to be pampered, you can tell to the person that you need pampering.

When you want to be loved, for sure, you need to know how to LOVE others.

Feeling is really controllable as mentioned?

Nothing to do...

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Spent my weekend at hometown, without my daughter and hubby.